When my fabulous ex, J, constantly accuses me of flirting during our relationship and thereafter ACCUSED me of having one night stands after we broke up, I was baffled. I mean you can’t tell someone off for imagining that she/he was having sex with strangers when the accuser himself has already done it! Where is the logic in that? How do you even have sex with someone you dun like? And the chance of disease? I wouldn’t touch a player with a 10m bargepole.
Anyway, in the words of Dalai Lama ,” if there is no solution, no possibility of resolution, then there is also no point in being worried about it, because you cannot do anything about it anyway. In that case, the sooner you accept this fact, the easier it will be for you.” I have decided that this is enough. Enough is enough. I refuse to cry anymore and hide in my shell while he ‘thinks about getting back with me’. In my opinion, if you have already decided not to then dun even SAY YOU’RE GOING TO THINK ABOUT IT!
I’m taking a step a day and I have to say I’m not really following the Buddhist way since my heart is bitter.
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